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A Swinging Relationship Can Be Healthy For You, if You "Follow the Rules"
Women, Swinging, Sex, and Seduction | Psychology Today
For some couples, the idea of having sex with anyone other than your significant other seems unfathomable. But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realize. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like. My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club. Not all experiences were percent pleasurable, so we made an effort to have those conversations and keep the lines of communication open.
If Your Partner Wants to Be a Swinger This Weekend, Beware
I hope everyone is on track to crushing your goals for ! When I first heard the term "swingers," it was on a talk show and I thought it was a crazy concept, like you might as you are reading this. However, before bashing swingers, listen to how it could benefit some of you. Swingers are couples or singles who choose to have an open relationship, allowing their partners to have sex with other people, with their permission, of course.
A question on how to get your wife into swinging is a question that has been asked by many people. First, you should take your time and discuss with your wife for you to make a decision whether swinging is an adventure that you will really like to pursue. You may be that kind of a person who cannot see her with another man, in case you are that kind of a person, then swinging may not be the right thing for you to engage in. In case you will take it, then it will start with communications. Take your time and sit down with her for you to discuss the positives and negatives that you will encounter after you decide to join the lifestyle.